Posts Tagged ‘school’


How To Get Resources for Your Child At School

November 15th, 2009 by Julia

At the parent group today one of the mothers celebrated that after four years her daughter finally had a lap top at school.

To a lot of people it would seem incredible that a child in chronic pain would have to wait that long.  There are resources out there but it can take a huge effort if you don’t have the right words on the right bit of paper for the right person.

In this case the process for change followed these steps;

  • The child had an assessment by her specialist.
  • He wrote a letter to the school outlining the child’s condition and the effect this condition would have on her.
  • The specialist wrote a referral for a private occupational therapist to visit the school and make an assessment of the school environment.
  • The occupational therapist then produced a report for the school on the changes that needed to be made for the student to fully participate.

The school explained to the family that once the school has the report it must act on it immediately. Apparently there is considerable accountability to Disability Services once such a document is tabled.

In this case all the efforts to lobby the school for extra support had not been effective.  It was not until the family asked the specialist to assist that action was finally taken.

The assistance children can access depends on many factors-

  • The time and energy parents have to knock on doors and ask for questions. (Are both parents working full time?)
  • Access to a specialist with a willingness to assist. (Do families understand that their specialist can help?  Is that person approachable and helpful on this practical level.)
  • The attitude and internal resources of the school. (Some schools have experienced caring staff who will help.)
  • Resources within disability services in that particular area.

If your child needs extra resources at school you might try the process described above.

My husband also recommends writing a letter to the school Principal describing your child’s needs and asking what you need to do to access the available resources – from the school and any related government agencies.

I’d be interested to hear how you have tackled it and what your experience has been.

PS. We had a lap top provided for our daughter by the Centre for Inclusive Schooling. We found these people difficult to deal with.  Once it was too difficult for my daughter to attend school we transferred to School of Distance Education.  Our daughter continued her education from home. The Centre for Inclusive Schooling then asked for the laptop back.  Apparently she could only have a lap top if she went to a day school. Good one guys!


“Excuse Me Miss” – Why Don’t Kids Get Heard At School?

April 25th, 2009 by Julia

It is not always easy for children to avoid unsuitable activities at school.

It is not always easy for children to avoid unsuitable activities at school.

This morning a group of mothers were chatting at hydrotherapy about problems their children faced at school.

Children with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome who had been told by doctors not to participate in certain activities were still being forced to join in.

“Why didn’t you say something?” parents wanted to know. The children all said they had tried to say no and give their reason, but the teacher just would not listen.

This same theme came up again and again.

Children are not believed.

School notes don’t seem to work because teachers can be different from week to week.

My sister is a teacher.  She told me that so many kids try to get out of sport that teachers become deaf to excuses after a while.

In several of the stories the children suffered painful injuries as a result of being forced into unsuitable activity in the classroom as well as on the sports field.

For these parents I was speaking to, an injury to their child had a big impact.  It might mean having to take time off work.

It could also mean visits to hospitals, doctors or physiotherapists,  medications and watching their kids in extra pain that was avoidable.

It makes me think that this problem could be addressed on several fronts-

  • arming rheumatology kids with assertive skills training
  • developing letter templates that help parents get their message across
  • perhaps a medical alert tag/bracelet could be developed for arthritis kids

I’d be interested to hear whether you have had problems like this and what strategies you have tried.

Netball photo courtesy of tompagenet at Flickr Creative Commons.